Desired Qualities in – a Woman! This list has two distinctive parts – qualities that are negotiable and those that aren’t. Not Negotiable Intelligent, articulate, and expressive – able to communicate and enjoy conversation~~~I love conversation esp. with you. Faithful and loyal~~~very Respectful and respectable~~~yes Happy in appearance (countenance) ~~~yes Sense of humor, laughs easily and appropriately – and at my jokes! ~~~esp. at your jokes, lol Playful and maybe a bit mischievous~~~that’s the irish in me Handles gentle and good-natured teasing well~~~yes Sensitive, kind, and gentle of touch and in spirit~~~yes Teachable~~~never too old to learn Empathetic~~~yes Patient~~~very Loving, loves to touch and be touched, not afraid of intimacy, loves to cuddle~~~love it.
Passionate, in matters both intimate and not~~~very Enjoys intimacy~~~very much Reacts well and reasonably to adversity~~~look for the silver lining. Aware of how their actions and words affect others – and practices this with grace~~~very conscious of this. Casual in spirit – i. e. , easy to be with, not demanding (“just wants to be together”) ~~~that’s me! Values inner beauty over outer – but grooms their outer beauty and carries themselves accordingly~~~well put! Successful in their business / professional life~~~i make a decent living and do enjoy what i do so i guess you could say i am successful. Active, not a couch potato (most of the time) – but knows how to relax at times without guilt~~~well said…
I don’t watch too much tv, you don’t either do you? One who takes care of themselves physically~~~Well you know my situation. One who takes care of themselves spiritually~~~very important. Not given to physical complaints~~~i get aches and pains every so often, but taking care of your self physically makes a huge difference and keeps the aches at bay. tylenol works great. Not habitually tardy~~~well you got me there, i have a bit of a problem with that, but have improved over the years a lot.
Cognizant of feminine cycles and preventive of potential problems created thereby – i. e. , no PMS! ~~~well no pms here! Not afraid of tears – mine or yours~~~never. Not a slob or pack rat~~~not completely, lol, no i do tend to hold on to things a little too long, you never know when someone may need that piece of string, lol…
but i get rid of things on a regular basis… good will stores are full of my stuff! Not afraid to be alone at times~~~i enjoy peaceful solitude at times. Not overly demanding of the other’s time~~~i don’t think i am. Not jealous of the other’s talents and constructive activities – within reason~~~i admire others talents, and hope they will admire mine instead of being jealous. Not a user of tobacco or abuser of alcohol ~~~i like to have a drink once in a while, but i don’t smoke and wouldn’t want to be with anyone who smokes or drinks in excess. Able to distinguish between the truth and what is often passed off as truth~~~this is interesting, perhaps you can explain that a bit more to me.
I do feel that one of my gifts is that I have a good sense of what is right and true as opposed to what is wrong or fake… but don’t know if that is what you mean. Not high maintenance~~~what is high maintainence to you? Enjoys simple things – walks, things of the sky, wonders of nature, the water, quiet fires, camping~~~love all those things. Does not begrudge an activity because it is inexpensive~~~my favorite kind, lol, the simple things are often the most fun. Peaceful – both inwardly and outwardly~~~i think so.
Prefers quiet over loud, small gatherings over large, peace over chaos, simple over complex~~~i agree. Has her own interests and life and does not begrudge my interests and life – though she is always welcome to join in Most important – truly interested in being with me and will fight and work for a great relationship~~~very good Greg! This is a great list. And these are all very important things, i would have these on my list too, but i would add a person who is kind to animals, children and his mother… and also someone who enjoys my cooking.