Change occurs in many different forms and is carried out in many different ways. Change doesn’t have to occur over a single dramatic event, it can just happen overnight when your brain determines it’s time to do something different. For obvious reasons, people reject change. The reasons for this is that people have to adapt to changes as they are new and unfamiliar and take time to get used to. Change makes people feel insecure in their life. It’s dangerous to try to stop change and argue against it, especially if the person wants to change so much.
The reason that somebody wants to change is usually not their choice, but a feeling that the person feels inside their head and heart. It’s almost like a celestial force is making you change and you have no say in the matter but you know you have to because your mental and physical attributes are commanding you to. Maybe the change isn’t the best change, but if you dig deeper, the person that you love and know isn’t really changing, they are just trying to find themselves and the one thing they need the most is the support of the people who they care about the most. When the people they care about the most dismiss their change as something unimportant and try to guard down everything by rules and regulations, the person they loved begins to change out of sadness that the one group of people he or she thought would understand, really has no clue. Maybe change isn’t always good or bad, like I was saying before, but it could be looked at as something to help you grow. So just remember…
if someone is changing, be there for them, offer your their opinion but help them go through whatever they need to go through because they will do what they need to do regardless of the people that they really do love.